Mylin Marinog

Meet Mylin Marinog from The Philippines

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What has been your most memorable cultural experience so far?

Spending time with colleagues during picnics and bonding with their families has been a truly heartwarming experience for me. There’s something special about connecting with people outside of the workplace, sharing casual moments, and getting to know each other on a more personal level. These moments not only foster a deeper sense of camaraderie but also create lasting memories that make working together more enjoyable. Being able to witness the genuine warmth and kindness of my colleagues and their families has made me feel more at home in this new environment. There's a sense of belonging that comes with these shared experiences, which I truly value.
On the language front, coming from the Philippines, where formal English is emphasized, I was initially more accustomed to speaking in a very structured, precise way. The English we were taught back home is more formal and rooted in a traditional, academic style. It served me well in many situations, but when I arrived here, I quickly realized that communication was different in subtle but important ways. The tone, the pace, and even the vocabulary used here were more relaxed and informal. At first, it felt like a bit of a challenge for me to adjust. The way people joke around, use colloquialisms, or express themselves in an easygoing manner wasn’t something I was used to. It felt like I had to recalibrate how I approached conversations.
But over time, I've found that adapting to this more casual style of speaking has become enjoyable. It’s not just about adjusting the way I speak; it's about embracing the culture that comes with it. I've learned to appreciate how this informal style makes communication feel more natural and connected. It feels less rigid and more authentic, and it encourages a sense of openness and approachability that formal language sometimes lacks. Now, I find myself incorporating some of these expressions and tones into my own speech, and it feels like I’m becoming a more fluid communicator

What has been your favorite part about living in the US?

Diversity, nature, and opportunities are among my favorite aspects of living in the US. I truly appreciate the rich variety of cultures and traditions here; it’s amazing to experience so many different backgrounds all in one place. The access to beautiful national parks is incredible. I love hiking and discovering the breathtaking landscapes. There are also countless opportunities for personal and professional development, which makes it exciting to be in a place that fosters innovation. And perhaps the most rewarding part of all is having my family (this includes my husband and children) here with me. Sharing these experiences with them has added another layer of joy to everything. Whether we’re exploring a new city, enjoying a quiet hike, or simply sitting together at home, it feels incredibly special to have them by my side in this journey.

What has been the most challenging?

The most challenging part of living away from home has undoubtedly been the sense of loneliness that occasionally creeps in. There are moments when the distance from my family (this includes my parents and siblings), friends, and the familiar aspects of life in the Philippines feels overwhelming. I miss the comfort of being surrounded by people I’ve known for years, those who understand my background, my values, and my way of thinking. At times, it’s hard not having those familiar faces around—people who you can share spontaneous moments with, whether it's over a cup of coffee or during a casual chat. The feeling of being “disconnected” from the place that shaped you is something that can take a toll on even the most adaptable person.
The simple way of life I once took for granted in the Philippines—where daily routines were built around the rhythm of familiar environments, faces, and local customs—is something I often long for. Back home, I didn’t have to think twice about how things worked because everything was known, predictable, and comforting. Whether it was my daily commute, the sights and sounds of the city, or the interactions with local vendors and friends, there was a certain ease to it all. There’s something deeply comforting about that level of familiarity, and it’s a stark contrast to being in a new place where every small thing is slightly different, and it can take time to find your footing.
In the beginning, the lack of routine was disorienting. Even the regular rituals, like gathering with family for weekend meals or going to the same parks and markets,
became things I had to adapt to. Instead of the seamless flow of daily life, I had to rebuild new routines—whether it was figuring out new places to shop for groceries, finding a community, or adjusting to work dynamics that felt different from what I was used to. These small yet significant shifts in routine were not always easy, and sometimes, they left me feeling like I was trying to piece together a puzzle that didn’t quite fit. However, as time passed, I realized that loneliness and missing home are natural emotions in a situation like this. What’s important is how we handle those feelings. I’ve learned to embrace the uncertainty that comes with living away from home, and over time, I’ve started to create new routines and build connections that make me feel more grounded. I’ve discovered new places that give me a sense of comfort, and I’ve met people who, while not my old friends, have become part of my support system.

Do you have tips for your fellow J-1 teachers?

If I were to offer advice to someone facing the same challenges or embarking on a similar journey, I would tell them to just be yourself. It may sound simple, but it's a powerful reminder that authenticity is key. When you're in a new environment, it’s easy to feel the pressure to change or fit into certain expectations. But the truth is, embracing who you truly are, with all your uniqueness, is what will give you the strength and confidence to navigate whatever comes your way. Trusting in your own identity and not losing sight of your core values will help you feel grounded and secure, even in unfamiliar situations.
I would also say to stay strong. Life, especially in a new country, often presents obstacles—whether personal, professional, or emotional. There will be times when
things don’t go as planned, or when you feel isolated or discouraged. During those moments, it’s crucial to draw on your inner resilience. Remember that challenges are a part of growth. By staying strong, both mentally and emotionally, you'll be better equipped to handle whatever difficulties arise. And even if you don’t feel strong at times, know that it’s okay to lean on others for support. Strength doesn't always mean doing everything on your own; sometimes, it’s about knowing when to reach out and allow yourself to be supported.

What has been your student's favorite cultural exchange activity so far?

The exchange of Christmas cards and greetings has been, without a doubt, one of the most cherished and meaningful activities for my students. It’s more than just sending and receiving cards—it's a unique opportunity for them to connect with others across borders, to form bonds with students from different parts of the world, and to engage in a heartfelt tradition that transcends cultural boundaries. For many of them, it’s the first time they've had the chance to interact with peers from another country in such a personal and tangible way. Each card and greeting becomes a bridge that links their lives to the lives of others, even if they’re separated by thousands of miles.

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